Visuel How Should I Highlight My Hair?

How should I highlight my hair? - visuel

Well, I think highlights put in my hair tonight, but I will not do, as highlights of the regular ..
http://www.garnier.co.uk/img/OUR_PRODUCT ...
Let me be very different and different parts of size and a few thin strands like the picture. I do not want to look at it as I would have done if it makes absolutely no sense.
How do I get my hair? Some parts here and there?
I also thought that the best of my command of the color of the light, then highlight and put into play to make my hair?

I hope that at least in one direction ..
This is my hair
http://i38.tinypic.com/330qkhd.jpg
It is already dark, faded in the middle of a golden brown
and I was then a light brown / brown in my hair.

thank you (;